心理學X Speed Dating



單身活動增加新元素

很多人想認識心理學但又未必有機會接觸到，公司HK Romance Dating 一於把心理測驗、 輔導心理學融入speed dating活動，成功吸引大量單身人士報名。


認識心理學其實是一個自我修行的過程，從中你能更加認識自己，從而改善你控理情緒的能力及處理危機、衝突、人際的方法。

簡單舉例，我們可以透過繪畫家庭圖，宏觀地了解自己的性格是最受哪些家庭成員影響，而這些影響你的人又是受甚麼家庭成員影響，除了學會寬恕，更讓你尋找到哪些是負面影響，立定決心從自己改正，避免把負能量延續至下一代。


又例如透過一些專業的心理量度工具，包括九型人格、十六型人格，T-JTA等，我們可以知道自己性格的優點缺點，日後努力發揮優點，改善不足之處，直接引領參加者有更好的職業導向、生涯規劃、婚姻關係、子女關係等等等。


策劃Speed Dating活動時，HK Romance Dating 每週都會邀請心理專家舉行講座，包括「繪畫心理 - 探索未知的自己」、「九型人格心理學入門」、「Mindfulness! 正念內觀體驗」，每次最多五十人參加，導師在講座會加插大量分組遊戲，讓參加者互相深入認識。

部分飲食活動的Speed dating活動也有加入心理測驗環節，有效讓單身男女發掘更多話題，更加認識自己，認識別人。

除了Speed Dating，單對單約會會員更可參加免費的小組約會技巧班，由創辦人Anita及Yubi親自教授，Anita本身是心理輔導學在讀碩士生，兩人擅長教會員透視異性的心理、同時也要提升自己心理質素，培養優雅大方的言談舉止，加速dating成功率。
Location: Hong Kong

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