Speed ​​Dating

Hello, for those who are reading this article or do not know me. It’s nice to meet you all. I am Suki Chau, the event coordinator and matching consultant from HK Romance Dating. Little things about me, I studied in the U.S. for nine years. Not only did these 9 years taught me things from the textbook and meeting interesting souls from around the world, it also shaped my joyful, outgoing and challenge-seeking personality. I graduated college with a degree in Hotel Management, and it was no surprise that my first job was in the hospitality management field. My past experiences taught me how to provide the best services to clients, as well as training and managing employees. My favourite reality show is called If You Are the One (非誠勿擾), a speed dating show aired on Jiangsu Television. Without doubt, my favourite person there has got to be “Grandpa Meng” (孟飛老師), as I really admire his wit and how he deals with the unexpected. But what makes me enjoy watching him more is how he continuously...

Grouping from start to finish to make Mont Blanc together. French chestnut cake, allows you who like to cook to show off your skills, and get to know each other easily and happily, and look forward to creating sweet memories with you. Event Date and time: October 30 (Sat) 7:00-10:00pm Venue: Causeway Bay Requirement: Male: 32 to 43 years old, college degree or above Female: 28 to 38 years old, college degree or above Details Mont Blanc | French Chestnut Cake Workshop Speed ​​Dating for those who like to cook: 1) Get to know all single friends freely, please join our Speed ​​Dating game; 2) Make Gold Coast Mango White Chocolate Mousse in groups of four. It will be divided according to the background and age of single participants. Desserts will be packaged after Speed ​​Dating is over for you to take home; 3) One-on-one exchanges with the opposite sex in the audience. At that time, you will have a matching form, just write the person you want to know, and our HKRD will exchange the pai...

  除咗Speed Dating，唔少人都鍾意玩Dating App認識更多異性，以往我地唔少客人都同我地哭訴，話喺交友平台識到玩家，被騙財騙色者皆有。最近Facebook開發全新交友程式，唔知呢個平台會唔會相對安全呢？ Facebook現時正測試一款由Facebook內部新產品體驗（NPE）團隊負責開發，叫做Sparked嘅視像快速約會程式。Facebook會用用戶帳號，再由Sparked幫佢地作配對，然後進行視像快速約會。 每個 Speed Dating 環節為4分鐘，要雙方都同意，先可以安排第二輪為時10分鐘嘅視像通話。如果雙方都有好感，Sparked會俾雙方交換聯繫方法，等佢地後續發展。呢個平台將會係免費，而且用戶個人資料唔會被公開。 現時Facebook未公佈每名參加者將會獲派幾多次視像見面機會，現階段Sparked仲處於測試階段，註冊登記需要喺後補名單中等候。Sparked註冊時伯提醒用戶需要保持善意，亦需要表明登記註冊原因，安排Speed Dating之前有可能需要被個別審查。大家可以選擇配對性別同條件，但暫時Sparked未正式上架。聽落Facebook推出嘅交友平台好似相對可靠，始終Facebook都擁有部分用家真實資料，可以減低用戶詐騙嘅機會，唔知各位朋友又有冇興趣試呢？定係想繼續參加Speed Dating？

 Speed Dating 唔少人感情不順，通常都係因為情緒有問題。HK Romance Dating創辦人Anita話，見過唔少單對單客人黎咨詢時，都話因為ex成日發脾氣而同對方分手，所以今次佢教大家點處理伴侶同自己情緒！ 好多時成日發脾氣嘅人，都係情緒冰山下積累咗某種思想同固有觀念，細個時俾原生家庭或朋友影響，搞到感情觀有偏差。我地見到佢地嘅脾氣表現行為，只係冰山上嘅角，如果大家想改變佢地，就要先改變根部。 可能各位 Speed Dating 客人以前都遇過類似情況，就係當對方預期未得到滿足時，就會大發脾氣，例如對方諗住婚禮會大搞，點知你只係想簡簡單單地結婚。佢地呢個時候就會發脾氣，因為有種不安感，透過發嬲呢種情緒黎掩飾。 另外一部分人，就可能因為工作壓力大，會將脾氣轉移至伴侶身上。亦有一部分人拍拖時，諗住有啲野冇所謂，好多位都冇滿足對方，令佢覺得你一直挑戰佢底線。呢種情況，相對容易解決，你不妨做啲俗世覺得會令對方開心嘅事情，將小幸福積累。 仲有唔好諗住對方成日都估到你計劃，例如你有結婚計劃，應該俾對方知你有心，用行動黎呈現，中國人傾向用言語較少表達愛意，大家不妨改改呢點，展現多啲。 除此之外，各位 Speed Dating 客人要學識多溝通，遇著對方臭脾氣時，可以問有咩幫到對方，引導佢講出背後原因。可能佢係想示威，透過情緒表達引起關注。然後你要問點解佢會咁諗，同時表示喺呢種情況下自己都有壓力，而唔係即刻走咗去。可能對方成長過程中一直係咁處理問題，所以你要引導問佢想唔想改，同時當對方表達想法時表示欣賞，透露你有意同對方走落去。相信咁，下次對方會收歛，因為都想同你維持關係。 當然以上方法都要睇對方有冇心改，如果佢地一直發脾氣，冇動力去改變狀況，各位 Speed Dating 客人就要考慮對方係咪真係適合你，無謂折磨自己。

  唔知最近大家有冇留意，HK Romance Dating嘅Speed Dating活動又有新意思，就係引入咗心理學元素喇， 究竟呢個轉變對各位單身人士有咩幫助呢？ 首先，大家可以享受美食、認識新朋友之餘， 又能夠透過活動更了解自己，聽落係咪好著數呢？ 可能有啲Speed Dating客人黎過活動好多次，但識新朋友情況都未如理想， 有時自己都諗唔明點解。透過心理學環節， 大家就可以再次審視自己，睇下邊度可以改進。 其次，各位 Speed Dating 客人可以對新朋友有更透徹認識。 因為大家只係喺Speed Dating活動第一次見大家，未能夠即時深入認識對方， 但透過心理學活動，大家就可以快速了解對方性格， 更容易搵到你嘅perfect match！ 最後，心理學環節其實非常有趣，好多 Speed Dating 客人都覺得非常好玩！ 有部份客人可能已參加過多次活動，覺得當中形式重覆， 但當佢地試過心理學環節，都覺得好新鮮，流程唔再係千篇一律。 佢地表示即使完成活動，都可以番去同朋友玩相關遊戲， 增加同朋友之間嘅交流。因此，各位如果未參加過呢類型Speed Dating活動，記住黎試下啊！

單身活動增加新元素 很多人想認識心理學但又未必有機會接觸到，公司HK Romance Dating 一於把心理測驗、 輔導心理學融入 speed dating 活動，成功吸引大量單身人士報名。 認識心理學其實是一個自我修行的過程，從中你能更加認識自己，從而改善你控理情緒的能力及處理危機、衝突、人際的方法。 簡單舉例，我們可以透過繪畫家庭圖，宏觀地了解自己的性格是最受哪些家庭成員影響，而這些影響你的人又是受甚麼家庭成員影響，除了學會寬恕，更讓你尋找到哪些是負面影響，立定決心從自己改正，避免把負能量延續至下一代。 又例如透過一些專業的心理量度工具，包括九型人格、十六型人格，T-JTA等，我們可以知道自己性格的優點缺點，日後努力發揮優點，改善不足之處，直接引領參加者有更好的職業導向、生涯規劃、婚姻關係、子女關係等等等。 策劃Speed Dating活動時，HK Romance Dating 每週都會邀請心理專家舉行講座，包括「繪畫心理 - 探索未知的自己」、「九型人格心理學入門」、「Mindfulness! 正念內觀體驗」，每次最多五十人參加，導師在講座會加插大量分組遊戲，讓參加者互相深入認識。 部分飲食活動的Speed dating活動也有加入心理測驗環節，有效讓單身男女發掘更多話題，更加認識自己，認識別人。 除了Speed Dating，單對單約會會員更可參加免費的小組約會技巧班，由創辦人Anita及Yubi親自教授，Anita本身是心理輔導學在讀碩士生，兩人擅長教會員透視異性的心理、同時也要提升自己心理質素，培養優雅大方的言談舉止，加速dating成功率。

Some people say that getting married early or late is the most important thing to tie, but for many years, I have been looking at many Speed ​​Dating guests. I have discovered that getting married early is actually a lot of things. What's the point? Anita, founder of HK Romance Dating You know~ If you want to have children, there are many benefits to getting married early. The chance of having a childbirth in your twenties is only 10%. By the age of 35, it has increased to 20%. So if you have a solid relationship with your partner and don’t worry about other surrounding factors, it’s best to get married soon. It is like the singer Coco Lee, who took care of living and working when he was born, and when he was old, he tried a lot of artificial inseminations without success. Even if you have money, it won't be a problem. It can be seen that if you have money, you can't solve it. Secondly, if you get married early, your heart will be settled as soon as possible. You may have ...